🌬️ " Grief is wearing a dead person’s dress forever."
“Do not write a poetry of rarity, or of rarification, but of never again.” - Kevin Young 🌬️
Been losing so many things lately — now I have a Seeing Stone!


Finished reading: My Struggle, Book 1 by Karl Ove Knausgård 📚
💬 “The true has about it an air of mystery or inexplicability. this mystery is an attribute of the elemental: art of the kind I mean to describe will seem the furthest concentration or reduction or clarification of its substance; it cannot be further refined without being changed in its nature. It is essence, ore, wholly unique, and therefore comparable to nothing. No “it” will have existed before; what will have existed are other instances of like authenticity. The true, in poetry, is felt as insight. It is very rare, but beside it other poems seem merely intelligent comment.” - Against Sincerity, Louise Glück
Unicorns in The Met Cloisters


One of the greatest poets. Every poem is so finished. Finished reading: The Golden Book of Words by Bernadette Mayer 📚


Happy Friday! We made it.
Hania Rani the composer of Sentimental Value was a guest on NTS Radio, a gorgeous selection of modern classical pieces, perfect for working or walking. You can listen here.
Rad venue underneath an instrument store, local bands only. Main Drag Music in Williamsburg, Brooklyn
As an avid fan of the party game Mafia/Werewolf, I’m loving the show The Traitors. I want to be on it so badly or at least play the game. Someone help me get on this show or rent a fancy manor so I can play please
If you’re in New York City and want to see a poetry reading, I’ll be giving a reading Tuesday at 730pm in the East Village. 💐
Finished reading: The Bronze Arms: Poems by Richie Hofmann 📚
🎵 Songs going into the weekend:
Shoot From the Heart by Jude Tzuke
Finished reading: No One Belongs Here More Than You by Miranda July 📚
🌬️ Poem: Nothing in That Drawer by Ron Padgett
One of my favorite sonnets –
Nothing in That Drawer
Ron PadgettNothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
Nothing in that drawer.
🌬️ Poem: [Sonnet] You jerk you didn't call me up By Bernadette Mayer
[Sonnet] You jerk you didn’t call me up
By Bernadette MayerYou jerk you didn’t call me up
I haven’t seen you in so long
You probably have a fucking tan
& besides that instead of making love tonight
You’re drinking your parents to the airport
I’m through with you bourgeois boys
All you ever do is go back to ancestral comforts
Only money can get—even Catullus was rich butNowadays you guys settle for a couch
By a soporific color cable t.v. set
Instead of any arc of love, no wonder
The G.I. Joe team blows it every other timeWake up! It’s the middle of the night
You can either make love or die at the hands of the Cobra Commander
To make love, turn to page 121.
To die, turn to page 172.
📖 Thoughts on On Photography by Susan Sontag
Finished reading: On Photography by Susan Sontag 📚
What a brutal criticism on photography.
I don’t think Susan Sontag would have had an Instagram, to say the least.
I agreed with a lot of her diagnosis of society’s relationship to the photograph and the camera: the way images can turn the world into something to be collected and consumed, how they push us toward spectatorship instead of action, and how easily they plug into surveillance, control, and commodified experience. But my problem starts when she absolutizes those insights.
Sontag’s moral positioning against photographers, sentimentality, art movements, and pretty much anyone who has ever been interested in taking a photo feels at points insufferable and, ironically, distant from reality. To morally reject all photography, surrealism (yep, that means Picasso), and Joseph Cornell (who doesn’t like Cornell boxes?!) on the grounds of their supposed lack of realism, which she seems to treat as the pinnacle, is a bold move. She fights hard for that stance with sharp articulation, extensive research, and genuinely lovely prose, but it still reads as an overreach.
However, some of the theories she puts forward really do shade in the non‑reality internet world we find ourselves in now, where so much of life is filtered through screens and feeds. Still, I’m not persuaded that her critique moves me enough to give up my film camera, or to treat every vacation snapshot—or every new parent taking another photo of their baby—as a moral or societal failure. Those photos can also simply be about care, memory, and connection, not just appropriation.
I’ve noticed recently (and share) a growing hostility toward the photograph, driven by privacy concerns around AI and the fallout of living in a social‑media and ad‑saturated culture. That’s where Sontag’s idea of an “image world” that hollows out experience feels newly useful. I will certainly be thinking about this book for awhile.
Some 💬 thoughtful quotes:
“Photographs are a way of imprisoning reality, understood as recalcitrant, inaccessible; of making it stand still.”
“Whatever the moral claims made on behalf of photography, it’s main effect is to convert the world into a department store or museum-without -walls in which every subject is depreciated into an article of consumption, promoted into an item for aesthetic appreciation.”
“Life is not about significant details, illuminated a flash, fixed forever. Photographs are. The lure of photographs, their hold on us, is that they offer at one and the same time a connoisseur’s relation to the world and a promiscuous acceptance of the world.”
“Today everything exists to end in a photograph.”
“As photographs give people an imaginary possession of a past that is unreal, they also help people to take possession of a space in which they are insecure. Thus, photograph develops in tandem with one of the most characteristic of modern activities: tourism.”
“To photograph is to appropriate the thing photographed. It means putting oneself into certain relation to the world that feels like knowledge–and therefore, like power.”
🎵 Music:
Songs I have been listening to today:
◾️Turiya & Ramakrishna by Alice Coltrane
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Apple Music◾️I’ll Change for You by Mitski
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Apple Music◾️WHO TF IZ U by J. Cole
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Apple Music◾️High Hopes by The S.O.S. Band
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Apple Music